Winner vs Loser, By: Author Unknown

The Winner is always part of the answer;
The Loser is always part of the problem. 

The Winner is always has a program;
The Loser always has an excuse. 

The Winner says,"Let me do it for you;
The Loser says;" That is not my job." 

The Winner sees an answer for every problem;
The Loser sees a problem for every answer. 

The Winner says," It may be difficult but it is possible";
The Loser says,"It may be possible but it is too difficult." 

When a Winner makes a mistake, he says," I was wrong";
When a Loser makes a mistake, he says," It wasn't my fault." 

A Winner makes commitments;
A Loser makes promises. 

Winners have dreams;
Loser have schemes. 

Winners say," I must do something";
Losers say,"Something must be done." 

Winners are a part of the team;
Losers are apart from the team. 

Winners see the gain;

Losers see the pain. 

Winners see possibilities;
Losers see problems. 

Winners believe in win/win; 
Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

Winners see the potential;

Losers see the past. 

Winners are like a thermostat;
Losers are like thermometers. 

Winners choose what they say;
Losers say what they choose. 

Winners use hard arguments but soft words;
Losers use soft arguments but hard words. 

Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;
Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values. 

Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you
would, not want them to do to you";

Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you." 

Winners make it happen;
Losers let it happen.